You have to stop blaming others for your situations.People are always blaming their circumstances on other people. I don't believe in circumstances. The people who make it in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and if they can't find them, make them. My struggles was so risky and so scary, and yet at the same time, so beautiful. It made me a stronger person and to speak nothing but the truth. It's the things you fight for and struggle with before earning the greatest worth. When something's difficult to come by, you'll do that much more to make sure it's even harder -if not impossible- to lose.”Convince your enemy that he will gain very little by attacking you; this will diminish his enthusiasm”Many times we are our worst enemy. You have to trust God and not give up. God got you no matter how hard it gets. If we could learn to conquer ourselves, then we will have a much easier time overcoming the obstacles that are in front of us.In the journey of life, certain paths may seem to be leading nowhere because of a mountain or hill on the way which may seem to be the end of the journey, but should a pilgrim of life climb such a mountain with tenacity and courage and gets to its apex, he would not only deeply feel and understand the tenacity and the courage it takes to climb the mountain, but he would also see ahead and have a clearer picture of the way forward better! Life will throw all kinds of obstacles our way. It's our job to scramble over them and hunt for the little miracles tucked away, then leave some reminders for the people that follow behind us.There is strength in every struggle. Struggles create opportunities for you to become stronger, wiser and better. The moment you shift your thinking from "I cannot" to "I must," you will begin to see 'Beyond the Pain' and draw strength from within. Learn to see each obstacle as a stepping stone and watch your life change significantly.” No matter what, I would never let the people who wanted me to break see how much damage they had inflicted.If you are busy focusing on the falling bricks, you will never realize that they are truly stepping stones you need to cross over to the next phase of your life. You would be able to look back and say I made it.





Melissa L Bryant
HowSheFought